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Thursday, 27 July 2017

5 REASONS TO BREAK UP- WHEN A BREAK UP IS JUSTIFIED

5 REASONS TO BREAK UP-
WHEN A BREAK UP IS JUSTIFIED

Break ups are messy, painful and comes with lots of heartaches: many people have landed in the grave after a break up (yes, it can kill), many have become broken and scared for life while the weak hearted ones have lost their sanity after a break up. Can there be a reason to inflict such pain on an individual? When can and should you break up that relationship? You can do it when:


YOU ARE BEING ABUSED
 Some women are being beaten by the man they love and have become a living corpse as a result, some suffered psychological abuse and have lost their self esteem and live in a shell. In many cases both the abuser and the abused love each other deeply but because one of them needs psychological, spiritual or material help the other person have to suffer. When you are being abused, leaving is justified because your life and sanity is at stake. Even if your abuser threatens to commit suicide you have to save yourself first before you can save another.

YOU NO LONGER LOVE YOUR PARTNER
Don’t ever stay in a relationship out of pity. If you are convinced you don’t love your partner anymore or you have fallen hard for another then leaving is justified. People might call you a jerk or a terrible person but it is better than being deceitful or turning into a cheat. If there is no hope of bringing back love, respect and trust in your relationship then you will be doing your partner a lot of good by leaving. Your partner may not appreciate it now but he or she will see it as a blessing in disguise later in life. You can read my article on how to break up right.

WHEN IT DOESN'T FEEL RIGHT
You are in a relationship and both of you love each other but there is no peace in your heart, if it doesn’t feel right maybe it isn't. If you have done something bad like: betraying someone to get into that relationship, telling lies to get accepted or dating a relative(incest) you won’t have peace even if both of you love each other deeply. Love alone cannot keep two people together, you have no right to deceive or break other people’s heart in order to mend yours. Peace and sleep will always elude you; breaking up is justified.

WHEN YOU OR YOUR PARTNER CHEATED
No matter how much your partner beg and cry if you have proof that he or she has cheated on you then breaking up is justified. Your partner has no right to hold on to two or more women or men at a time unless he or she plans to marry both. Trust is important in a relationship and if any of you have broken it the offender should take responsibility. If you have cheated on your partner and he or she finds out you should break up if your partner request for it. You can’t eat your cake and have it.

WHEN ONE OF YOU IS MARRIED TO ANOTHER
It is called extra marital affairs or infidelity and both of you have no right to be together, in fact, you should break up now. Being with someone that is married to another is very wrong: you can’t get married and the relationship is doomed from the start. If he or she ended up leaving his or her spouse for you be prepare to suffer the same fate too. Where is your conscience? No reason is good enough to date a married man.

Let’s face it, if you are not meant to be together nothing can keep you together. It is better to hurt someone with the truth than to make them happy with a lie. If you have any of the reasons above then leaving is justified.


  

Wednesday, 19 July 2017

PRINCE CHARMING AND THE GLASS SLIPPERS: WHY CINDERELLA IS A FAIRYTALE-

PRINCE CHARMING AND THE GLASS SLIPPERS: WHY CINDERELLA IS A FAIRYTALE-

Every guy believes that there is a woman out there for him, she is built to his taste: she has the kind of body he desires and she is an embodiment of virtuous character and innocence. They just have to meet and Ta-da! She will wear the slippers well and they will live happily after. You have been misled, Cinderella is a fairytale and you can’t find her for the following reasons:


NOT WOMEN ARE NOT BUILT RIGHT
When you find the one with the right boobs her legs are not straight and just when you find the one with the right hips her teeth look like forks. Why can’t everything be perfect? Why can’t every woman look like Beyonce or Rihanna or Angelina Jolie and other sexy woman? What you overlook or don’t know is that those women have done liposuction, plastic surgery, nose reconstruction, breast implant: a nip here a tuck there to look how they look now. Can you just give women a break?! No wonder we have women wearing fake boobs and hips nowadays.

THAT BEAUTIFUL BODY IS TEMPORAL
I loved reading weekend newspaper when I was a teenager; I was addicted to the relationship advice page and devoured the paper immediately it was delivered. A man wrote a letter asking for advice, according to him he loved women with big boobs and married one. After nursing a child he noticed that his wife’s breast shrank and was covered with stretch marks, the poor man felt cheated and the love he had for his wife began to wane. Don’t marry hips or fall for a good figure you might regret it.

ALL WOMEN HAVE THEIR BITCHY MOMENTS
‘Why didn’t I realize you were like this sooner? I can’t live with this lets break up’ how many women have you said this to? You kept moving from one damsel to the other looking for the perfect fit and at the end of the day you end up settling for a pretender who will exhibit worse character after marriage. Hormones make women act crazy sometimes and if she has pent up emotions she might just explode when you least expect it. Don’t expect her to act like an angel all the time. Tolerate what you can and help her improve.

WOMEN ARE COMPLICATED CREATURES
The way a woman will act when you were just friends will be different from how she will act when she is your fiancée: she might be sweet and supportive as a friend but become unreasonable as your fiancée. She wasn't pretending before, you don’t just understand that it is a different ball game entirely. A woman’s attitude depends on how you treat her most times but sometimes it depends on her mood. Almost all women are jealous and possessive but some control it better than others, the sweet and perfectly innocent woman you are looking for does not exist.

EVERY WOMAN IS A RAW MATERIAL
Courting a woman is like going to the market to buy clothing material, you have to cut and then sew it to your taste. Don’t covet your neighbor’s woman, only he can deal with her because she is to his taste. Get your own woman and help build her. If you always look for finished or ready-made women you will be disappointed, invest in your woman and help her grow (you can read my article on how to build a woman).

Every woman can act like an angel if she is treated like one, she can also look like an angel if you polish her; no woman is ugly she is just broke. Many of the actresses you see on TV don’t look that good in real life so stop living a fantasy. Know the difference between what is real and what isn’t and don’t have unrealistic expectations from others.
         

Saturday, 8 July 2017

20 RELATIONSHIP COMMANDMENTS FOR SMART LADIES

20 RELATIONSHIP COMMANDMENTS FOR SMART LADIES

1. Thou shall NOT date any guy out of sympathy.
It is never worth the pain.

2. Thou shall NOT practice revenge relationship
Aka let me show my boyfriend I can flirt too. That will inflict more injuries on you.

3. Thou shall NOT depend on any man for your daily needs.
 It has brought more pain than joy to some ladies.

4. Thou shall NOT fight over a man.
Such man won’t have regards for ladies.

5. Thou shall NOT remain in a violent relationship:
 You are supposed to be his sweetheart not a punching bag.

6. Thou shall NOT have sex with him.
 If he wants sex that desperately he should put a ring on your finger. Funny enough, men can wait when they see you are worth it.

7. NEVER act shy when a man is toasting you
 Be bold when men toast you. Stop cutting flowers or drawing circles with your leg! Enjoy the ‘toast’; don’t forget to pay attention to the pick-up lines. Some pick-up lines can crack your rips.

8. NEVER take your Girlfriend to his house.
If you are not sure of your man especially if the relationship is new, never take your girlfriend to his house or give her his number or BB pin. It is very risky!

9. NEVER indulge in a secret relationship
As soon as you can, let your man show his face to your people. This can help turn the relationship into a serious one.

10. NEVER look at his pocket first
Material possessions are good but never let them be the number one factor in choosing a man.

11. Do NOT sit carelessly
Always sit like a lady, some men act like babies when a lady is not properly seated.
12. NEVER think you can trap a man with good sex
Fou…fou…foul! It is an aberration.

13. NEVER act bitchy
Be good to men but be firm, don’t scare them away.

14. DON’T be stuck in a relationship going nowhere
Guys are not in short supply. Don’t be deceived and stuck in a relationship where there is no peace and rest of mind.

15. DON’T finance a man to keep him
If your purpose of financing a man is to keep him that could be a big mistake. Finance for the right reasons.

16. DO not think guys are the same.
 Don’t listen to ‘Men are the same jare ’ Men are not the same girl, how many of them have you met?

17. NEVER embark on a long journey to meet a man.
Adventures can be sweet, however, never embark on a long trip to meet a man without informing someone. If you are meeting the man for the first time it is safer to let him come instead of going to him.

18. DON’T let him hide you
Guys have a way of saying ‘don’t let anybody know about us yet’ if the relationship is up to three months and counting somebody should know jor!

19. NEVER date a bad guy
They say good girls love bad guys and as a good girl you are looking for a bad guy to love? You are on your own (OYO is your case) let bad stick together and good love good. Don’t use your head to catch bullet.

20. Do NOT hate your single state
Being single is not a disease; do not be desperate to get married. Many married people are wishing they are single. It is better to wait long than to marry wrong.
                                                             






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