IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP HEADING NOWHERE? FIND OUT NOW
You have been in a relationship for some time, you are crazy about your partner and have started dreaming about rings and kids, your heart tells you it is the real thing but can your heart be trusted? Does your partner feel the same? Will your dream come true or will it be shattered? Watch out for these signs, it will help you in answering these questions.
YOU HAVE NOT MET HIS/HER PARENT
I do say this several times, meeting each other’s family is a sign of commitment. It doesn't mean you are getting married immediately, it means your partner wants you in the family in the future. So, lack of enough funds to settle down now is not an excuse, if you have been seeing each other for over a year and you are yet to meet any member of your partner’s family, then something is wrong! Don’t be too much in love to notice that your relationship is a mirage.
HE/SHE INTRODUCES YOU AS ‘A FRIEND’
I am sure your partner has enough reasons to justify it now if your head is not in the cloud you will realize that it is a declaration of intent. I am not saying he/she should introduce you as ‘my wife’ or ‘my husband’ few weeks into the relationship but if he/she has accepted to be in a relationship with you, you are more than a friend. If you have been together for few years and you are still a ‘friend’ you are a fool for believing you can become more.
YOU HAVE FREQUENT SEX
YOU HAVE FREQUENT SEX
If you can’t keep your hands off each other when you are together, he/she is not hot for you; he/she is not for you. You have not had a heart to heart talk for some time: he/she just walk in, have sex or call you when he/she is in the mood, forget it, sex is the only thing you are good for. It doesn't matter if he/she tells you sweet words after the act or buy gifts frequently, it is suicidal if you don’t discover in time that your relationship is not even a relationship.
HE/SHE THINKS YOU ARE PERFECT
HE/SHE THINKS YOU ARE PERFECT
He/she is not blinded by love, your partner does not want to correct anything about you because you are not there for real and your sassy and rude attitude is being tolerated because you will soon be dumped. The truth is that nobody is perfect; if you are broken and you belong to your partner he/she will look for ways to help fix whatever is wrong. Maybe he/she is not complaining because he/she does not intend to keep you.
IT IS TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE
IT IS TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE
If it is too good to be true, it is either it is fake or it is calculated. Your partner does everything you want, everything is perfect, in fact, it is rosy and looks like a fairy tale: you've never even fought over anything before. You think you are looking at a perfect gentleman or lady? You might just be looking at a smart con artist. A real relationship has healthy arguments and conflict; the sail might not be smooth but the landing will be worth it.
So here is it, pal, don’t wait till things go wrong: prevention is better and safer than cure, it is cheaper too. If you think it is real, it probably is, but if you are almost sure it isn't, get out when you can still afford to.
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